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On Life-Changing Things

Do cute new aprons count as clothes?

So, as I’ve mentioned here before, I made a New Year’s resolution not to buy any books this year until I’ve read the books I already have. I’ve done pretty well sticking to that plan, although I still haven’t made my way through “Lipstick Traces.” But the doing without a constant stream of Amazon boxes has got me thinking.

Every time I think I *need* a book it’s because I think it will somehow alter my life in some amazing way. Sometimes that happens (see Patti Smith’s “Just Kids”). Other times, not so much (see Bez’s “Freaky Dancin’: Me and the Mondays”). The books keep piling up, and life pretty much keeps rolling along.

With the book habit off limits, my life-improvement habit might have turned to another passion — food. I’ve tried a variety of healthy eating plans with weird limitations or wacky ingredients, and none of them have ever stuck. But somehow, the bread-making hobby we started a while back has rubbed off on us all and we’ve been generally eating in a healthier, manageable way. (Generally! Please do not tote up the calories we consumed at Smorgasburg. And I didn’t even tell you about the eggs mayonnaise we had at Reynard!)

Before food, there was the craft-supply habit. There’s always some new tool that promises to be a game-changer or some great deal on a bag of assorted geegaws that are bound to come in handy. But there came a day when I realized that just trying to sort through and find the supplies for a new project was so exhausting that I didn’t even want to make anything. So I did a major de-stash and have been keeping all that pretty much in-check.

As I was pulling my Spring clothes out of storage the other day it occurred to me that I have taken to “fixing” my life with clothes of late. We all know that everything will fall into place if we find that one perfect jacket or pair of shoes. Right? But I’m afraid my poor closet will explode before I find that magic article, so I am making a late-year resolution to only buy something new when something old wears out.

In the meantime, I’m hoping the time I save hunting down various life-changing items can be put to better use actually doing something life-changing. Or maybe I’ll just spend it making another batch of tortillas.

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At Long Last

All accessorized and ready to press.

All accessorized and ready to press.

 

Another item crossed off the culinary to-do list.

Well, it finally happened — I made tortillas for the first time over the weekend! I was inspired to give this a go when I read Alana Chernila’s “The Homemeade Pantry” last spring.

I hustled to pick up a tortilla press, and … that press has been sitting in the cupboard since last May, still in its box waiting for the proper conditions. Earlier this month, I declared March 24 “Tortilla Day” and prepared to get to work.

The Mister had already hunted down a bag of masa harina, and the only other ingredient I needed was water. It turns out that I had already honed the skills required to give tortilla making a try during all those hours I spent with my Play-Doh Fun Factory as a kid. It’s basically some kneading and rolling and then the pressing and frying. (Well the frying isn’t really part of the Fun Factory experience, but the rest is pretty close.)

Although I am sure there are those who are much more graceful with their efforts and produce far more magical tortillas than mine, I am happy to report that both The Mister and The Kiddo appreciated my efforts.

To accompany my tortillas, The Mister brewed up some pork in the crockpot with a little Genesee beer and a little chinotto. We’ve had a chinotto stash in the garage fridge ever since we went on a tour of ethnic markets with my father and step-mother.

We’d never seen chinotto before, and figured we’d give it a try. It tastes sort of like tobacco-flavored soda, if you ask me. Wikipedia says it’s actually “produced from the juice of the fruit of the myrtle-leaved orange tree.” My folks claimed to like it, but we’ve only managed to reduce our inventory by sneaking it into various crockpot efforts. There has been some discussion of using it to make ice cream floats, but so far that’s only been a threat.

We had a lot better luck reducing the tortilla supply. Which means I’ll be making my second batch to go along with the leftovers tonight!

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Reading Round Up

Somehow, the more books I read, the more books I add to my “to read” list.

OK, I have a quick confession to make. I have technically broken my New Year’s resolution not to buy any books. I am not calling it a full-on break because the book I bought is definitely not for pleasure.

So, I don’t feel totally guilty about this purchase because A.) I need it to bone up on some work-related stuff. B.) I bought a used copy. And, C.) I am making myself work through it a little every day so it won’t sit gathering dust on the shelf.

Whew! Now that that’s out of the way, I’ll fill you in on some of the more enjoyable reading I’ve been doing.

“Miss Peregrine’s Home for Peculiar Children” by Ransom Riggs

This book was on my radar, but when The Kiddo started reading it at school and felt the need to fill me in on bits and pieces, I had to move it to the top of my list or risk an unwanted trip to Spoiler City.

The story centers on a teenage boy’s adventures as he travels to visit the Welsh island where his grandfather grew up. The author sprinkles his narrative with vintage photos that depict the various “peculiar children” and their special abilities, adding another dimension to the storytelling. With supernatural and mystery elements, this was a thrilling read.

The Kiddo and I read some of this book together and raced each other to read the rest. When it was over, I really missed being wrapped up in the unusual world the author created. Happily, it seems Riggs is working on a sequel.

There was some “salty” language in this book, especially for a fourth grader. But it is about a teenage boy, so that’s pretty much to be expected. The Kiddo was so caught up by the story, I think the language took a back seat, although it didn’t go unnoticed. Anyway, it hasn’t seemed to have a negative impact on his vocabulary. But, for parents concerned about such things, you might want to give it a read yourself before passing it on to your own youngsters.

“Notes from the Underwire” by Quinn Cummings

A good friend of mine gave me this book for a birthday present. It’s a collection of essays about the life of the author and covers a good range of experiences including motherhood, the curse of being helpful, and the unique trials of being forever labeled “a former child actor.”

I really enjoyed this book. Cummings is relatable, entertaining, and insightful. I especially like her technique for handling chronic complaining from her young daughter.

It breaks down like this: If something is truly painful, the kid has free reign to complain. If it’s only uncomfortable, or has already been complained about, she must present her complaint in “an entertaining fashion.” And she can’t use the same complaint twice. Now that’s the kind of parenting tip I like!

Next up

The Kiddo and I are reading Blue Baillett’s “Chasing Vermeer.” This is the first book in her series about a trio of incredibly unique and interesting Chicago tweens who have a penchant for falling into mysteries and uncovering schemes.

Baillett peppers her stories with references to other books, discussions about art, codes to break, and the possibilities that arise when coincidences are taken seriously.

These are the kinds of stories that leave you with a list of new things to explore. We already have plans to make a set of pentominoes and a hold request in for a collection of Charles Fort’s work, and we’re only a quarter of the way through the book!

Meanwhile, I am finally planning to hunker down and read “Ascending Peculiarity: Edward Gorey on Edward Gorey.” I’ve long been a fan of this darkly humorous author, and have meant to read this book for ages.

Gorey keeps popping up in other things I’ve read — a quick cameo in a Patti Smith book, a discussion of his relationship with Frank O’Hara in a collection of poems I was perusing, even a Google Doodle salute the other day. I’m looking forward to the opportunity get to know Gorey better.

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Holiday Wrap-Up

No new books this year!

Time to catch up on my reading.

Time to catch up on my reading.

The festive flurry of activity is over and it’s back to work around here. We had a nice break with time for both relaxing at home and getting out and about.

This year, the kiddo had lots of Legos on his wish list and we all had fun helping to put them together. We all really dig the Monster Fighters line. The ghost train was especially fun to build. Would love to score the haunted house!

We talked a bit about the parts of the holiday that we all like the best. Aside from the chance to find that just-right gift for one another, the preparations (like making this figgy pudding) and the traditions (like getting the tree) were the big winners, along with time for relaxing visits.

One afternoon while the kiddo was at a hot cocoa party, I met the Mister and a friend at Barber’s Grill for a visit. This place is a local gem for sure. Their Balboa sandwiches are a delight and you can get them with a side of tater tots — yum!

While the kiddo went off to a summer camp New Year’s reunion, the Mister and I hit a couple of our favorite restaurants for Prix Fixe dinners. Rocco’s was wonderful from start to finish. And the Owl House had some stand-up main course choices along with delicious deserts.

My resolution this year is to read the books I already own before I buy any new ones. And I am counting cookbooks here — a major weakness of mine. I imagine that means I’ll be visiting the Hamlin library more often, but it also means 2013 could be the year I finally finish “Lipstick Traces!”

Wishing you all a happy 2013.

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Christmas Spirits

Will I ever achieve my dream of owning a full-size Leg Lamp?

Role Models.

It hasn’t felt all that Christmassy around here so far this year. I think that probably has to do with the warmer weather and lack of snow. We’ve been making preparations and all, but it’s been hard to believe the holiday is so near.

This past weekend, we kicked things into high gear. We started the day at the Brockport UnitarianUniversalist Fellowships’ Christmas pageant. This wasn’t your ordinary pageant, with impromptu participants, our always game minister taking on the role of the donkey, and family-friendly Rocky Horror Picture Show-style call-outs. How could we keep from feeling festive after that?

So, it was off to Green Acre Farm and Nurseryto pick out our big bushy Christmas tree. We divided up the decorating work with the Mister stringing on the lights (mini leg lamps and chili peppers included) and the boy and I on ornament duty.

The final event in our day of holiday cheer was attending John Water’s Christmas Show. What a fabulous and filthy send-up of all that is wonderful and oh-so-wrong about the holidays!

Waters has always had a love of the outlaws and oddballs, as he so delightfully details in his book “Role Models.” He points out that while reality shows tend to look down on their subjects, he looks up to his. Waters revels in being called “The Pope of Trash,”but you could never call him mean-spirited.

The highpoint of the evening for me was having the opportunity to thank Waters for his excellent appearance on a reality show of sorts — Celebrity Ghost Stories (Season 1, Episode 3). It’s not the scariest story, but it’s so satisfying and I love the way he sums up the impact it had on his life. You can buy the episode on iTunesif you haven’t seen it.

Waters was cute and acted like it was silly for me to fuss over this odd little footnote in his career. But sometimes it’s the little moments when we really share with others that make all the difference.

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